Gah! the google banner up there has an ad that talks about allowing parents to choose the gender of their baby. The idea of that is just stupid! Other than wanting a healthy baby, people shouldn't expect their children to be anything. For instance, if my kids are gay, I won't give a damn, AT ALL. I don't care if I have a boy or a girl, or if s/he happens to be trangender. I might be concerned about some of the social risks for an intersexed kid, but I wouldn't try to change that kid, I'd just be prepared for teasing and whatnot.

Parent's have to take what they get, and as long as the kid is healthy, they shouldn't be disappointed with it ever.